The Way Life Is

Well, the house that will be ours has been delayed another week. We were supposed to sign the lease on Sunday, but that didn't happen. Luckily the place is still potentially ours, we just have to meet the landlord again on this upcoming Sunday, when we can pay the entire deposit and the rent for the remainder of the month. Then we can sign the lease and get the keys, and we can start moving stuff in that night! I've probably got my hopes up higher than they should be, but I'm quite sure that this landlord won't back out on us, and I'm quite sure the place will still be ours next weekend.

Moving in is going to be a long and tedious process though, that's for sure. If we could've started this week, it would've been much easier. Next week, though, not so much. We all work on different days and at different times of day, so there's never a day when we're all off together. Our one future roomie starts her exams next week, so she'll probably be studying when she's not working. It'll be most convenient for Boyfriend and I to start moving stuff, but neither of us have a vehicle (and I can't drive), so that's out of the question. I'm sure we can probably move some stuff there from our friend's house, with the help of her dad, but it won't be much. My stuff will be the most difficult to move, being that I'm from a different city. I don't want to ask my dad for help even though he's the one with a regular-sized truck -- though I'll most likely ask him to move Aden's bed for me -- so it's gonna be hard. Maybe if we get everyone's vehicles (three cars and a very small truck) we can do the important stuff in one trip, but I doubt we'll get it all.

Hopefully we can get it done in a week though, or most of it anyway, because Aden's dad and I agree that Aden shouldn't come until we're more settled in. We agreed that he'll come after a week, because at least we'll be mostly settled by then, but now his dad's saying no, we have to be completely settled in before he comes. Well ... I'll obvoiusly be lying to him about when I'm settled, considering I have lived in one place for a year and a half before and never really settled in. Whatever ... Aden will come after a week, regardless of his dad's opinion.

And speaking of his dad ... he's also got to realize that meeting halfway to pick up/drop off Aden just isn't going to work with everyone's schedules. He'll have to bring him all the way most of the time, and we'll bring him all the way home at other times. He'll just have to suck it up.



And on a completely different subject, my sister is being a huge bitch. Yeah, I said it. She is, once again, acting like she's so much better than me, basically. She was like this when Aden's dad and I first broke up, calling me stupid, pretty much telling me she knew better than me and I was being an idiot. Now she's doing it again, and it was provoked by nothing. She has this attitude like she's been through much more than I have, and like she's so much wiser and knows so much more about life and the world. I don't know where the hell this attitude comes from, though, because she is completely wrong. She hasn't been through nearly as much life as I have, and she doesn't know anything about the world. She's 18, and she's just graduating high school in a week. She's lived in a small town her entire life, and she's basically sheltered from quite a bit. I, on the other hand, am almost 22 and have been through a heck of a lot more than she has. I have no clue why she thinks she is so much wiser than me. It's incredibly annoying and frustrating.

She's actually trying to "ban" me from going to her grad that I'm already invited to. As much as I hate her right now, I still want to go, since it's my baby sister's grad, but if I can't go, I can't go.

She'll eventually realize she's not as smart as she apparently thinks she is, but in the mean time, she had better keep her effing opinions to herself, and OFF of my facebook wall for all to see.

Ugh.